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How To Know You Are In Fellowship With God

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A Letter to the Children (Part 4) Loving the Brethren

© 2025 C. O. Bishop

1st John 2:3-11

Introduction:

Last week we learned what an advocate is and what a propitiation is, and why each is important to us. Today, in 1st John 2:3-11 we will learn how we can know we are in fellowship with Jesus.

Loving the Brethren

3 And hereby we do know that we know him, if we keep his commandments. 4 He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.  5 But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him. 6 He that saith he abideth in him ought himself also so to walk, even as he walked.

7 Brethren, I write no new commandment unto you, but an old commandment which ye had from the beginning. The old commandment is the word which ye have heard from the beginning.  8 Again, a new commandment I write unto you, which thing is true in him and in you: because the darkness is past, and the true light now shineth.

9 He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now. 10 He that loveth his brother abideth in the light, and there is none occasion of stumbling in him. 11 But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes.

What “Commandment?”

Verse 2 says that Jesus is the propitiation of the justice and holiness of God. It completely satisfied the demand of His Holy Law, which required that I must die. So, the Law now says I am already dead. But, if that is really true, then, what commandment is left? What could I disobey and call into question my relationship with Him?

And, While we are asking Questions: What does it mean, “To Know?”

What is the Greek word translated as “know,” in verse 3? As it turns out, both uses of the English word “know” are translated from the Greek root verb, “ginōskō.”

The word “ginosko” means an “experiential knowledge.” It is not a simple mental awareness, such as “knowing the boiling point of pure water, at sea-level, in degrees Fahrenheit.” That would be the Greek word, “oida,” (or sometimes it is spelled eido.”) It implies that you know a fact, but it says nothing of your personal experience in the matter. In contrast, claiming to have “ginosko” knowledge means “I maintain an experiential awareness and a relational knowledge” of someone or something…Perhaps a topic, even.

So, verse three might read, “In this way we can have an experiential awareness that we have an ongoing relationship with Him: If we keep His commandments.” Not whether you have ever met Him, nor whether you are saved: But he tells how you can experientially know that you are now walking with Him in a growing relationship.

Compare 1st John 1:6…. He says, “if we say that we have fellowship with Him (there is that ongoing relationship.) And walk in darkness, (there is the walking.) We lie and do not the truth.” So, now we are introduced to another, more specific, standard by which to determine our spiritual or carnal condition.

So…What Commandment is in Question, Here?

Verse 4 says, “4 He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.”

Again, the Greek word for “know,” used here in verse 4, is “ginosko.” If I say that I am in a healthy, ongoing relationship with Jesus Christ (“knowing Him”), but I am ignoring His commandments, I am lying. Remember: Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together except they be agreed?” (The implied answer is “No!”)

But Jesus did give at least one “New Commandment” in John 13:34, 35. He said, “A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; As I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are My disciples, if ye have love one to another.” (Incidentally, this is the Agapé love. It has nothing to do with how you feel: it has to do with how you treat others: how you respond to them, and to the needs in their lives.)

1st John 2:5, 6 says that our obedience to Christ is the outward evidence that we are “in Him.”

An Appropriate Sign

5 But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him. 6 He that saith he abideth in him ought himself also so to walk, even as he walked.

This expectation is appropriate: If you say you are “abiding in Christ,” then the reasonable hope should be that your life will reflect His values and His character. In John 8:31, we see, “Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed;”

Notice that the people to whom Jesus spoke were already believers: they were the Jews who DID believe in Him. The issue is discipleship! It means following Jesus…walking with Him! And Jesus said that it required “continuing in His Word”…keeping His Word. That is what followers do! (How important is it? In John 10:27, 28, He said, “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them and they follow Me, and I give unto them eternal life and they shall never perish.” Following Jesus is “normal behavior” for a believer. Do sheep sometimes “wander and get out range of hearing of His Voice?” Yes, and He says He comes to find them!)

Think Carefully

We want to think carefully here. Remember Lot: In 2nd Peter 2:6-8, God clearly said Lot was a righteous man. And yet, he lost everything through all the bad decisions he made. So, from our human perspective, he seemed to be an unrighteous man, though in Genesis 18, Abram referred to him as “righteous.” (Abram did not actually use his name, but he was pleading for Lot’s life.)

So, was it “appropriate” for Lot, who already had been “declared righteous” by God, to live just like the World? He lived so comfortably among the Sodomites that no one could tell whether he, himself, was any different than they were! Of course, the answer is “No! It was not appropriate!”

And, yet, he maintained his “position” in the Savior, and he became a perfect Old Testament example of the man in 1st Corinthians 3:15. He had the opportunity for great reward. But he lost everything in the judgment, though he himself was saved. He was saved from that fiery judgment and destruction, literally by being dragged out of what was about to become an inferno!

His position in Christ was perfect and unchangeable: His condition was terrible, and it cost him everything, including his reputation. (Consider: No one remembers Lot as a “shining example of Godliness.” Quite the opposite.) If you say that you are “in Christ” as a true believer, and that you are in an active, ongoing relationship with Him, then your life should reflect that truth.

Ask Yourself

As we see the Word of God transforming us from the inside, (as Paul said in Romans 12:2) “through the renewing of our minds,” it gives us a growing confidence. We gain increased confidence that our own faith is genuine, and that God truly has claimed us as His own.

But, if that is not (or especially, if it has never been) the reality in your life, then you have good reason to be reexamining yourself. You should look back and ask whether you have ever placed your full trust in Christ as your Savior. That faith relationship should start cause internal change, that works out into an outward change, as well. If it does not, then there is something wrong!

Notice: I am NOT suggesting that the believer can “eradicate his sin nature.” Some teach that doctrine, but it is a false teaching. Not only does the scripture clearly teach the “two natures of the believer,” but any honest believer will attest to the spiritual war going on, within which their old sin nature is a vigorous enemy. (Read Romans 7:7-23, and Galatians 5:16-21) But we are to be victors over these enemies, and gaining stability as we grow, by the Grace of God and the Power of the Holy Spirit.

If nothing has changed, not even your desires… then you should be concerned. Your old sin nature could never desire to serve and honor God. It could never rejoice with the Word of God, or be thrilled by the Majesty of Christ. Your new nature cannot rejoice in sin. It is fine to examine yourself, but the bottom line is still, “Did Jesus die for MY sins, personally? Is His sacrifice what I am trusting for salvation?

The New Commandment is the Old Commandment We Had “From the Beginning.”

7 Brethren, I write no new commandment unto you, but an old commandment which ye had from the beginning. The old commandment is the word which ye have heard from the beginning.

Keep in mind that 60 years had passed since Jesus gave the “New Commandment!” So, to any believer at that time, they would remember it as “the Commandment we had from the beginning.” They would think of it as the Old (new) Commandment. John says they should have been abiding in this commandment all along, and that if they are not, they had better be asking themselves “Why Not??”

1st John 2:8-11 connects us to 1st John 1:5-10, regarding “Walking in the Light!”

8 Again, a new commandment I write unto you, which thing is true in him and in you: because the darkness is past, and the true light now shineth. 9 He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now. 10 He that loveth his brother abideth in the light, and there is none occasion of stumbling in him. 11 But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes.

If you truly have placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior, then you are now a ‘child of the light.’ (1st Thessalonians 5:4, 5 says “4 But ye, brethren, are not in darkness, that that day should overtake you as a thief. 5 Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.” And Ephesians 5:8 says, “8 For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are ye light in the Lord: walk as children of light:”

As we saw in 1st John 1:5, 6, it is completely possible for a born-again individual to lapse into carnality and walk in darkness. But John and Paul agree completely, that this should not be the case. And a negative overall response to other believers is a telltale sign of “being in darkness.”

Love of the Brethren

The “Love of the Brethren” is the key positive “symptom” of one who is a real believer, and one who is currently “walking in the light.” I have gradually become convinced that the Agapé love may not even be possible for the carnal or natural man to produce. Increasingly, as I study the Scripture, it seems to be always a result of God working through believers. Perhaps I am wrong, but that is how it looks.

Further, verse eleven says that this specific “darkness” blinds us so that we can’t see where we are headed. We don’t see the coming consequences and the resulting wreckage, because we have become judicially blinded by our disregard for God’s light. Disregarding God’s light will eventually result in judicial blindness, so that we can no longer see our bad decisions for what they are. We literally “know not whither we go,” as verse eleven predicts.

Old Testament Example:

In 2nd Chronicles 18, we saw Jehoshaphat, (who was a good king, and a true believer,) drawn away into a war, helping an unbeliever (Ahab, who was a wicked king.) The battle was a disaster, and Ahab was killed. God saved Jehoshaphat’s life, but in 2nd Chronicles 19:2, on his way home from that losing battle, a prophet stopped him. He told Jehoshaphat what God thought of that situation! He said, “Why should you help the ungodly, and love them that hate the LORD? Therefore there is wrath upon you from before the LORD.” Jehoshaphat was in trouble with the LORD! He was trying to fight on the wrong side!

That is not the kind of thing we want to hear from God, is it? But when we shower our attention and our friendship upon those who despise the Word of God, and who secretly (or openly) mock His Name, then perhaps we need to pause and take a hard look at where we are.

Self-Examination:

Who do you really prefer to spend time with, and why? Where is your real treasure? How do you feel toward other believers? Are they precious Brothers and Sisters in Christ? Or something less? These are questions you have to answer for yourself. I know, in my own life, it took some time, and I had to confront this issue more than once. We all desire to be accepted and valued by our fellow workers in the world: classmates, friends, etc. But at what cost? Give this some thought!

In Hebrews 13:12, 13, God invites us to join Jesus “outside the camp.” The writer says, “12 Wherefore Jesus also, that he might sanctify the people with his own blood, suffered without the gate. 13 Let us go forth therefore unto him without the camp, bearing his reproach.”

Jesus was rejected by His people. We should expect, if we are truly following Him, that we will also probably find ourselves “on the outside looking in,” where the World is concerned.

We can anticipate “social rejection:” But remember that “all those other social rejects” that have also responded in faith, are now our “family in Christ.” If that makes us uncomfortable, then we need to ask why. Loving the Brethren is a critical matter in which to strive for obedience!

Lord Jesus, transform our hearts, as we confess before You that we frequently are not loving the Brethren as we ought. Open our hearts to one another, so that we can have true fellowship around Your Person and Your Word. Reach through us to the dying World around us, in the power of Your Name.

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The Problems with (and the Symptoms of) Carnality

© 2023 by C. O. Bishop

1st Corinthians 3:1-9

1 And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, even as unto babes in Christ. 2 I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able. 3 For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men?

4 For while one saith, I am of Paul; and another, I am of Apollos; are ye not carnal? 5 Who then is Paul, and who is Apollos, but ministers (servants) by whom ye believed, even as the Lord gave to every man? 6 I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase. 7 So then neither is he that planteth any thing, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase. 8 Now he that planteth and he that watereth are one: and every man shall receive his own reward according to his own labour.

9 For we are labourers together with God: ye (plural) are God’s husbandry (Greek ”georgion”…a cultivated field, singular)  ye (plural) are God’s building (singular.)

Introduction:

Remember that in chapter two, Paul introduced the difference between a “Natural” man and a “Spiritual“ man. We saw that the “natural” man was unsaved…unregenerate, having only his old sin-nature. The “spiritual” man is in complete contrast. He was not only born again (“regenerate”), but also in direct submission to the Spirit of God. He not only has a new nature, but he is also in fellowship with God, and submitted to God’s direction. We chose to skip ahead to chapter three, to see that there also is a “third category.”

Paul describes the Carnal man, here in chapter three. This is a regenerate person, saved…born again, but one who is not currently in submission to the Lord. He or she is walking “in the flesh.”

The word “carnal” simply means, “of, or pertaining to flesh.”

When a person orders a bowl of “chili con carne,” in a restaurant, the name literally means, “chili with flesh…with meat!”

So, Paul is introducing the concept of “fleshly living.” This idea gets treated in several places in the New Testament. It is by no means an “obscure” idea. (In Galatians 5:13-25, Paul addresses this contrast. He shows the difference between walking in the flesh (old sin nature) and walking in the Spirit, in some detail.)

The Problem of Carnality

The primary problem with Carnality is that you are separated from fellowship with God!

1st John 1:5, 6 states that “God is Light, and in Him is no darkness at all! If we say that we have fellowship with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie and do not the truth!”

We are living a lie, when we are out of fellowship with the Holy God who bought us! Especially when we pretendi that “Everything is fine! I’m just praising the Lord!”

John goes on to show the simple act of repentance involved in restoring that condition of fellowship with God. (Your position in Christ is not in question. Your condition of either being in or out of fellowship with Him is in question.)

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Confess means (“agree with God”)

This is not a “religious ritual” of any kind. This “confession,” usually, is to God, and not to others, unless others have been affected by our sin. There is no hierarchy of priests through which we must pass to approach God. We approach freely, through the Cross. No “self-flagellation” is called for. Nor is there even any “doing penance” required. (And certainly no “Hail Mary’s,” in which the penitent is actually reciting a prayer of worship to Mary.) Confession is not a “sacrament.” Also, there is no ritualistic “format” for us to follow. Confession is simply agreeing with God concerning your sins and then pressing on to walk with Him in fellowship again.

Another Result of Carnality

A carnal Christian cannot understand much of God’s Word. (And usually isn’t really interested, either, as the Word of God constantly sheds light on the life of the reader. When we are in sin, we don’t like to see ourselves as we are!) But, while we are out of fellowship with Him, we cannot understand beyond the “baby-food” concepts of God’s Word.

We struggle with the “solid food” servings. We either “choke” on them, rejecting the teaching, or we simply don’t understand it, and we walk away confused. Therefore, Paul sadly said that he could not feed them on “solid food.”

They were not able to bear the “solid food” teaching, because they were still babies. He could only feed them on “milk.”

Babies are Wonderful, But…

A newborn believer need feel no shame at being a babe in Christ. He is supposed to be a “baby Christian!” But he also is called to rapidly grow out of that status, by feeding on the milk of God’s Word! (See 1st Peter 2:2, KJV.) There is no shame in physical babyhood, either. We become concerned, however, when a physical baby fails to physically mature at a “normal” rate. We are to progress to the solid food of God’s Word, and to a mature response to God’s Word.

In Hebrews 5:11-14, however, Paul complains that the recipients of that letter should have been teachers by that time, but that, instead, they had regressed to being babes. The reason the Corinthian believers were still babies, is because they were “failing to thrive.” Paul was only correcting them, in this passage, and warning of the consequences if they continued in carnality.

The Hebrew believers, though, were a different case. Because of their Jewish heritage and upbringing, they (perhaps) knew God’s Word better than the Corinthians ever would. But they had backslidden into such deep carnality that they were having to return to baby-food, as opposed to “solid food.” They had to return to the foundational teaching of God’s Word.

Warnings to Pretenders

He scolded the Hebrew believers pretty sharply, and then (in chapter six) he warned that, if they were not really believers at all, but just “fooling themselves,” then the potential was there for eternal loss. This warning was for people who were just pretending to believe: those who were just “going along for the ride.” But those genuine believers in chapter five, who were simply “wallowing in the mire,” so to speak, he sharply admonished to “get up and get moving!”

Lost Opportunities

Later in this chapter of first Corinthians, we will see that there are eternal results for sinning believers, too, but that they themselves will be saved, though their potential rewards will be lost.

Consider what he was saying to the believers in Hebrews 5:12. If they were supposed to be teachers by now and were not, then they were missing out on opportunities to serve with Jesus! (Read 1st Corinthians 3:9 carefully!) We are called to be laborers with God!

The Hebrew believers were missing out on the opportunity to “join Jesus in double harness” and, together with Him, to do the work of God. What a tragic loss! We only get one shot at this target, so to speak: we either use the short life He gives us by investing it in His agenda, or… we don’t!

Eternity is not an opportunity for “do-overs.” We can’t “change our mind,” in eternity, and go back and do the things we should have done. We can “change our minds” now,  and choose to invest our time and our efforts, our abilities and our “wherewithal in general,” to join Him in His work.

Symptoms of Carnality

It seems odd that one of the “Symptoms of Carnality” that Paul first addressed was the pattern of division and sectarianism that was already taking root in Corinth (and elsewhere.)

Today, we still see that pattern of dividing over “who is our preferred teacher.” But, ironically, we frequently are taught to think that such “separatist” behavior is somehow a mark of maturity. The Pharisees seemed to think that way, didn’t they? Jesus called out the praying Pharisee, who claimed to be “Thanking God that he, himself, was one of the Good Guys, not like that poor slob over there!” (Luke 18:9-14) From outward appearance, the Pharisee seemed to be following the Law, but inwardly, it was just pious pride. There was no fellowship with God involved.

When we separate ourselves from other believers (even secretly) over non-essentials, we are in sin. The result will be carnality, and everything we do while out of fellowship is empty of eternal value. Jesus said the tax-collector in Luke 18:13 (“publican” in the KJV) went home justified ( it means “declared righteous”) by God, and the “self-justified” Pharisee, who declared himself to be righteous, did not! God did not approve of his self-righteousness!

There is a “self-satisfaction,” and a “self-justification” rooted in all “I know more than they do,” or, “I serve more than they do,” or even “I listen to a better teacher on the radio than they do….” You see, all of those things come from the flesh. It is carnality!

In Contrast

Paul had the humility to see that Apollos, far from being a “Johnny-come-lately,” was a powerful tool in God’s hand, just as he himself was. He said, “We are both just servants! God is bringing the results!”

Paul pointed out that while he and Apollos did not have the exact same assignment, they were both being used by God to achieve the same goal. Paul was taking the Gospel where it had never gone, as he says in Romans 15:20.

Apollos was being used to teach and to powerfully convict the hearts of those who had already heard the Gospel, but were still unconvinced. (See Acts 18:24-28)

And Paul recognized that neither he nor Apollos was anything “special.” He simply counted it a privilege to have his life be used by God to do the work of God. He lived by Grace, which is “unearned favor.” Some teachers attempt to make “grace” mean “power.” It does not: it means “unearned favor:” a gift. But it is by the gift of God that we are allowed to serve and given the wherewithal to do so.

Future Reward

Paul also knew that a reward for faithfulness was coming. He said, “and every man shall receive his own reward according to his own labour.” That word “every” is pretty important: It means that every single believer has the opportunity to serve. And it means that every single believer who consistently seeks to serve will also receive reward for his or her service.

What an amazing thing! In John 15:5, Jesus said, “apart from me ye can do nothing.” In Philippians 2:13, Paul confirms that “it is God that worketh in you both to will and to do of His good pleasure.” And, here, in 1st Corinthians 3:7, Paul says that “God giveth the increase.”

But: the very next verse promises us that the “tools” through which He accomplishes His work will be rewarded as if they themselves had done it! That is a mind-boggling truth! We are not sent out to work “on our own,” at all! We either serve with Jesus, or not at all! But if we serve with Him, despite the fact that He is the One doing all the work, He promises a reward to us for simply “cooperating” and allowing Him to work through us!

Working With Jesus

He goes on to say that “we are laborers together with God!” God is doing the work. We have the privilege of “going to work with our Heavenly Father,” and doing with Him whatever He “sends us to do.” But he rewards us, as if we were the real workers. And He blesses us as we serve. We are not “blindly slaving away,” hoping what we are doing somehow has eternal value.

In terms of salvation, Jesus did every bit of the work, at the Cross!  But in terms of service, we always have a moment-by-moment choice: “Will I serve the Savior, by serving with Him, or will I just serve myself?”

An Example of “Serving Self”

Years ago, when New Tribes Mission was first setting up one of their woodland “Jungle Camp” training programs, in Eastern Oregon, one of the necessary tasks (obviously) was to dig the pits for the various outhouses, there in the woods. It was a hard, thankless task, but it was divided between all the men, so that no one person was bearing the burden alone.

One of the trainees, that year, had been a pastor of a church somewhere before entering the mission. He evidently thought that was “special.” Another man, a friend of mine, when walking past the pit where this man was taking his turn digging, overheard him complaining, over and over, that “This is no way to treat a pastor!”  

Do you see the difference between his attitude and that of Paul and Apollos? It was not a surprise to my friend when that man, shortly thereafter, dropped out of the training program. You see, he did not want to be a “servant.” So, he was disqualified by God from serving.

How can We Follow Jesus’s Example?

Jesus said, in Matthew 20:28, “The Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many!” We need to examine our own motives and ask ourselves, “Who am I really serving? What would He have me to do? Where is my heart attitude in all of this?

Lord Jesus, please open our eyes to the difference between spirituality and carnality. Lead us to repentance, so that we can serve You in the newness of the Spirit, not allowing our old sin natures to undermine the work of God in our hearts.

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