Answers from the Mouth of God (Part Two)
How can I know God’s Will for my life?
© C. O. Bishop 2010 revised 2021, 2025
Introduction: What About My “Feelings of Unworthiness?”
To begin with, let’s stop, and just admit it to ourselves: If I consider my personal abilities, my strengths, or my righteousness, of course I’m unworthy! But God isn’t looking at those things, so why am I?
God has already permanently placed you into the body of Christ. (1 Corinthians 12:13 says that all believers were baptized into one Body of Christ, by the same Holy Spirit.) Ephesians 2:6 says He has already seated us with Christ in the heavenly places. We have been raised with Christ and we are seated with him in Heaven! (Strange: it doesn’t feel that way, does it?) Ephesians 1:13, 14 says we are sealed in Him by the Holy Spirit until the redemption of the purchased possession. (That’s us!)
Ephesians 4:24 says your new nature is already perfect in Him: That your new nature has been created in the likeness of God, in righteousness and true Holiness. And 2 Corinthians 5:21 says you have been made to be the Righteousness of God in Him. It says that Christ became sin for us, though he knew no sin, so that we could be made the righteousness of God in Him. God no longer sees your sin at all, except as a hindrance to the blessing and work He wants to accomplish in you. According to Jesus’ promise, in John 5:24,you will never face condemnation.
Consider a Practical Example:
What would you think if, after a few attempts to learn to write his name, at age 4, your child declared himself a failure, and unworthy to be called your son? The issue of whether he could write his name is ultimately insignificant, and it has no bearing whatsoever on whether he is your son. The same is true in our relationship with God the Father.
We became children of God by rebirth, upon receiving Jesus Christ as Savior. Our works have nothing to do with whether we are saved. Our good works are only possible because we are children of God; not “required in order to make us children of God.”
Your child has the possibility of learning to write, because he is a human child. But some humans never learn to write. However, even if you could teach a dog to write, it would not become human. An unbeliever may do “good works:” Possibly even more consistently than most believers! But he does it for different reasons. Those reasons will be revealed, and his “good works” will not change his lost standing before God. Works are not in the picture at all, except as a result of saving Faith.
Feelings are Not a Reliable Measure of Reality
Finally, we need to recognize that “feelings are only valid when they reflect reality:” They are not a measure of reality. The fact of God’s Word is the true reality. We place our faith in His Word, and then we change our way of life to match His principles. We embrace His values as our own. Feelings of joy, satisfaction, and awe at the Majesty of God should follow.
But the fact is that our feelings don’t reliably reflect the reality of our new relationship with God. So, we need to constantly review the facts.
We can bask in the glory of God’s presence in His Word, and we can rejoice in fellowship with other believers. Those practices tend to insulate us from the negative feelings that besiege us through our life in the World. God’s Word reveals which feelings are from Him, and which are from our old sin nature. Satan will try to use my old nature as a tool to make me unprofitable to God. That is part of the battle—avoiding the traps he sets for our minds.
So, How Can I know God’s Will for My Life?
This is a very important question to answer, especially for a believer who has already settled the issue of his/her salvation. The Bible gives a great deal of information on the subject, and I won’t try to cover it all right now. The basics are as follows:
Read the General Instructions:
God gives a number of instructions to all believers: He wants all of us to walk in obedience to Him. He wants us all to live lives that are pleasing to Him, and which honor him before men. Additionally, He wants all of us to believe His Word; trust His grace, and His wisdom; and to tell the good news of salvation to others. He wants all of us to fellowship with Him, and with other believers. Finally, He wants all of us to pray constantly, and to be an encouragement to other believers, as well as praying for their needs.
What about Holiness?
He wants all of us to live without sin, but He knows our frailty, and He is more than fair: If we sin, we are to confess it to Him, make right whatever wrong has been done (if possible,) and go on walking with Him. The Lord wants all of us to love Him, above all things, and to grow in that love. He wants His Love to spill over from our lives into those around us, and to bless all those around us.
Human Relations:
God wants all of us to serve as His ambassadors, to reach the lost and dying world around us with the Gospel. He gives all of us instructions, as to how this is to be accomplished.
He gives all of us instructions as to how to relate to our spouses, our children, our employers or employees, the government, the police, the lost people around us, and to fellow Christians.
In short, all the general instructions regarding how to live for God are in the Bible.
Specific Instructions
Specific instruction, as to what school to attend, or who to marry, or how much to give, or where to seek employment, are a little different: They are a matter of applying the principles of wisdom given in God’s Word, and praying for guidance. If we write down the “pro’s and con’s,” and then apply God’s principles, to make our choices, many decisions can become a process of elimination.
How to Apply the Principles
Start by obeying the things you know, and praying for wisdom on the things you don’t know. (James 1:5) Then search the scriptures to see if there is a governing principle by which you can make the specific decision that is troubling you. If all the truth you know seems to point in a given direction, feel free to go that way.
Making Choices
If the answers you come up with really leave two equally good options, feel free to choose on the basis of personal preference. But be cautious; examine why you prefer one over the other. Ask God for guidance. It is OK to seek the counsel of others whom you consider wise in the Word, as well.
Finally, if you have gone as far as you can, and have made the best decision you know how, then commit your way to God, and trust Him to direct your path. (Proverbs 3:5, 6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy path.”)
If He “closes doors,” so to speak, it could be that He is redirecting you. On the other hand, it could simply be an obstacle that you must overcome. At any rate, God wants you to know His will. He does not “play games of hide and seek,” or make you try to guess. If you are truly willing to obey His will, and are actively seeking His will, then you will eventually be directed by Him.
Knowledge is For the Purpose of Conduct
Remember that knowledge is for the purpose of conduct, not curiosity. If you are not already willing to do the will of God, then don’t bother asking what it is. We are not free to choose, on the basis of personal whim, whether to obey God. But many of the choices for which we want His direction are covered by principles, and He simply tells us to learn the principles in His Word.
But don’t make the error of asking God’s will so that you can decide whether to submit yourself to it. He doesn’t give directions to “submit them to us for approval.” His will is to be obeyed, not “considered.”
Assurance as a Believer
You can have assurance as a believer, then, based on the promise of God’s Word, that you will never be lost, and that God will continue to love you and provide for you, even through hard times, sickness, and death.
Also, you can have assurance that, as you search His Word for principles to live by, He will lead you in the path of His choosing.
You can have assurance that, if you follow the principles in His Word, the choices you make will be within His will, and that you will enjoy his blessing and guidance.
Notice what those three all have in common? God’s Word! That is where we find our assurance. Try to establish a regular habit of reading (or listening to the reading of) God’s Word, the Bible. That is where you will find assurance and peace. In this congregation, we will continue to feed on His Word, and we trust that it will be to your encouragement, as well.
What Does it Mean, to “Feed on the Word?”
There are five fundamental ways you can feed on God’s Word:
- Hear it
- Read it
- Study it
- Memorize it
- Meditate upon it.
Each of the five ways in the above list requires more effort than the one before—and more time. Guess which end of the list has the most effect upon your life. Yep. The ones that cost you the most in terms of time and commitment are the ones that will do you the most good. The same thing is true for most relationships. The ones into which you put the most time and effort usually become the most valuable and enjoyable.
You Have to Make it Personal
Decide how you want to relate to the Lord. If you only want a “lifejacket” in the storms of life, then you may find that when the storms actually come you don’t really know how to use the lifejacket. If you want his guidance and love, and approval, and constant fellowship, then when the storms come, you will find that you are already prepared, and you can rest in Him.
I pray you will direct your hearts to find your assurance in the person of Christ, through His written Word, through His Holy Spirit, and through fellowship with other believers.
If there are specific questions for which you want answers, any of the leaders in this church will be happy to help you find them. You have only to ask.
Lord Jesus, please direct each of our hearts to make our relationship with you to be a personal priority, not just a matter of preference, and a conviction, not a convenience. Teach us to choose to feed on Your Word, and change our lives to reflect Your character.

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