Spiritual Gifts (Part 2)
© 2024 C. O. Bishop
Romans 12:9-16
Introduction:
Several passages in Scripture deal with the topic of “Spiritual Gifts.” We examined Ephesians 4:11-16, and the “Office Gifts,”…the people God has gifted to the church, to lead, supervise and teach the rest of the flock. We saw that they are also part of the flock: They are “shepherds,” but they are also “sheep” with the same needs and built-in weaknesses as every other believer.
Last week we looked at Romans 12:3-7, and saw that the people with the gifts are supposed to “Get on with the job.” Verse eight continues that idea, saying that if your giftedness includes encouraging others, that you should go do it! If your gift is giving, then so do so liberally. The Greek word translated as “simplicity,” here is “haplotēs.” It is translated as “simplicity” a few times in the King James Bible, but it carries the idea of “bountifully or liberally.”
But the passage culminated, in verse nine, with the Agapé Love.
The Love Relationship Between Believers
Romans 12:9-16 talks specifically about the Love relationship between believers: What should it look like? It is important to remember that the body of Christ at large (the Church, proper) is an organism, not an organization. A local church may share many aspects of an organization, but, it, too, is primarily an organism.
Any assembly of flesh-and blood people will require some organization, in order to function. But the church is not a “social club,” or a “political group.” We are an assembly of believers, and a local expression of the Body of Christ. As such, we are closely related to one another: we are to function as a body, though the local assembly is never called a “body” in scripture.
And what makes it all work is the Agapé Love. In spite of what I recently said about not spending too much time explaining the differences between Greek words, here are two Greek words that are frequently translated the same, but do NOT mean the same thing: And, we are commanded to practice both of them.
Love—Agapé and Philéo
9 Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good. 10 Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;
In November of 1981, I was working in the fields, harvesting Christmas trees. All the other workers were “transients” of one sort or another. One of them carefully (and cynically) explained to me the difference between a transient and a bum…it was interesting to hear it “from the horse’s mouth,” so to speak. One of the fellows there was a native-speaking Greek, probably in in his late forties, though I am not sure. But the fellow doing the explanation singled him out and declared him to be a bum. (He received a string of vile curses in reply.)
But, one day it occurred to me that I had a golden opportunity: I could ask the difference between two Greek words from a native speaker. He had no theological “ax to grind.” So I asked him, “George, what is the difference between ‘agapao’, and ‘phileo’?” He answered clearly: He said “Ah… ‘Phileo’ means ‘I love you! You’re my friend! You’re my brother! I love you!… But… ‘Agapao?’ It means ‘I give you my heart! I give you my soul! I love you!”
That was pretty profound for someone the other transients called a bum…he told me clearly that the two words are not synonymous. Consider the conversation between Jesus and Peter: Jesus asked “Do you love me?” using the ‘agapao’ verb, and Peter kept answering, using the ‘phileo’ verb, until Jesus changed his tack, and He used the ‘phileo’ word too. Then Peter was grieved. (They are not the same…and we are commanded to do both.)
Agapé
Most frequently and very emphatically (using “agapao”,) Jesus commanded us to “Love one another.” We are to be completely committed to the well-being of one another, without regard to how it affects us, personally. Jesus demonstrated that sort of love when He went to the Cross. Isaiah 53:10 confirms that He was pouring out his soul before the throne of God, for our sake.
When we read about love in 1st Corinthians 13, it is the agapé love. And every description is of an action, not a feeling. Here in Romans 12:9, Paul says the agapé love is to be “without dissimulation”—unfeigned—not faked. In fact, the Greek word (“anupokritos”) means “without hypocrisy.” Don’t “pretend” agapé. This needs to be real, and coming from God.
When I was in Bible School, in 1975, I suddenly saw this as a command: And that set me free! Until then, I only thought I “have a problem” with a “lack of love.” Once I realized that this is a command, I was set free, because God does not say to confess “problems,” but sin. Once I knew that failure to love was sin, I could confess it and be cleansed.
I saw the issue before, but thought I had to somehow “stir up Love,” and produce it on my own. It isn’t “just a problem!”God says, “if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1st John 1:9) Not a “blanket solution” for “problems”…it is a blanket promise regarding sin! And, the word agapé, has nothing to do with feelings. It has to do with how you set priorities, and what you do about them.
Phileo
But, in verse 10, he also says we are to be kindly affectioned (Greek “philostorgos”) one to another, with brotherly love (“philadelphia”). The Love described in verse 10 is the phileo love, and it does mean how we feel and how we act toward one another. It even says that we should “prefer one another in honor.”
We should see our Christian brothers and sisters as closer relations than any other associate. We are to build close relationships with one another, and be drawn together by the love of the brethren. The Greek word philadelphia literally means the “love of the brethren.” Unfortunately, naming a city “brotherly love” does not change how people’s hearts work: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania is no different than other large cities: Love is not what makes that city work.
The Christian Work Ethic
11 Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord;
The Greek word for “business,” here, is “spoude”—it means “diligence.” Not slothful means not lazy—not lackadaisical. In whatever we are doing, one way or another, we are to be known for diligence and zeal, as we are serving the Lord, . Ephesians and Colossians both address this idea, saying, “…whatsoever you do, do it heartily, as unto the Lord, and not unto men.”
We need to step back from the obvious, humanly visible circumstances, and remember who we actually serve. If you have a hard time with that, please take the time to read of Joseph the patriarch, Daniel the prophet, and Jeremiah the prophet. Each served evil men in hard, evil circumstances, but rose above the trial because they continually remembered who they served.
Examples From The Scripture:
- Joseph could have become bitter: he was kidnapped, sold into slavery by his brothers, forced to serve an evil man, Potiphar the captain of the guard—(in charge of the prison, torture and executions.), and imprisoned, accused of a crime he didn’t commit.
- Daniel was kidnapped, castrated (his boss was the boss of the eunuchs), and forced to serve the evil, monstrous kings of Babylon, who served evil, false gods. They murdered his people, and enslaved the survivors. But he remembered who he served, and he served faithfully. The result? At least some of those evil kings became believers…and his book stands today as one of the most important, key prophecies in the Bible.
- Jeremiah was “drafted” by God, to serve as a prophet, but virtually no one believed him! As far as we know, only two believed his message, during his lifetime: Baruch (his partner/sidekick) and Ebed-melech, the Ethiopian eunuch. But his ministry, though sparse when he served, by human terms, has continued to benefit believers now, for 2500 years!
All three of those men (as well as countless other men and women of God) served under far harsher circumstances than we may ever expect to experience. And all of them served faithfully. They served diligently. They did good, honest work in what they were assigned, regardless of how it would be received. And they were rewarded by God accordingly.
Joy, Endurance, and Prayer
12 Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;
Here is another hard one—Habakkuk saw the growing corruption he saw in Israel. He asked God why He wasn’t judging the rampant sin in Israel. God revealed that judgment was coming, in the persons of the Chaldeans (Babylonians.)
Habakkuk was horrified: He knew the Chaldeans were far worse than Israel. But God reiterated that he would bring the Chaldeans to purge Israel, but that Babylon would eventually be destroyed, and Israel would eventually be saved.
Habakkuk’s response was classic: He said, (Habakkuk 3:17-19) 17 Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls: 18 Yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will joy in the God of my salvation. 19 The LORD God is my strength, and he will make my feet like hinds’ feet, and he will make me to walk upon mine high places. To the chief singer on my stringed instruments.
An Example for Us to Follow
Notice: All the things he listed were things God had used as allegorical teaching regarding Israel: the fig tree, the vine, the olive tree, the flock, and the herd. And all were to be destroyed.
Habakkuk foresaw the destruction of his nation in judgment from God. And his response was an act of the will: I WILL rejoice in the LORD… I WILL joy in the God of my salvation! And God’s response to that sort of faith? He will make me sure-footed, and He will set my feet on high places, allowing me to rise above the grief and shame of the coming judgment. And Habakkuk said this was to be a song, a hymn of praise and faith.
Share! Be Hospitable!
13 Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.
Reach out to one another’s needs…open your home to others. Meeting the needs of other believers is what we would do with our natural family: Keep in mind that we are family.
It is interesting, too, that the word translated “hospitality,” here, is the Greek word “philozenian.” It means“brotherly love toward strangers!” This is not just a “membership benefit in the love-one-another-club.” He says to reach out to those we don’t know well—to strangers—as a life-style. Paul is not advocating irresponsible carelessness, here, as there are other places specifically warning against “false brethren; wolves in sheep’s clothing, etc.” But hospitality does not exclude strangers…it necessitates reaching out to strangers.
How Do We Respond To Bad Treatment?
Sometimes the strangers will not respond pleasantly. Sometimes even our own Christian family may be unkind to us. We are all “tarred with the same brush:” We each have an unsalvageable sin nature living within, as an “enemy within the gate.” (Romans 8:7says it cannot be made obedient to God. ) That results in bad attitudes, behavior and words. What do you do then?
14 Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.
Inevitably, in “hostile territory,” we will occasionally be attacked, and come under fire for our lifestyle. Remember: the moment you received Jesus as your Savior, you became the youngest, lowest, greenhorn-recruit in His army: He is already “invading planet Earth.” So, you instantly became the mortal enemy of Satan and all His minions, whether human or otherwise.
Life will NOT get easier: in many respects: it will get harder. You are in a war, now: You are surrounded by enemy troops. So—what do you do when you are under attack? Being hated, do you respond in kind? When you are being lied about, do you “fight fire with fire,” and get into a sniping war, taking verbal potshots at them in return? Or do you remember that all these people hating you are precious souls for whom Jesus already died?
God says, “Bless them that persecute us. Bless and curse not!” That is a command. It is not easy—in fact, I am of the opinion that the Christian life is beyond difficult: it is impossible, except for His indwelling Holy Spirit.
Walk in Empathy and Humility
15 Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.
16 Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.
Don’t consider yourself to be “above” other people’s suffering. Empathize! Go ahead and feel their grief. Go ahead and be touched by their pain…and rejoice when they are blessed, as well. We really are brothers and sisters, people. When things are good, be glad for your “Christian family.” When things are hard, grieve with them!
Cherish Unity
Unity is vitally important, too. Love and unity (the two things taught here) are two of the three criteria by which the World is invited to judge the church: Jesus said, (John 13:35) “by this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” And later, (John 17:21) He prayed that the church would be one, just as the Trinity is One. Why? “…that the world may believe that thou didst send me.” Romans, here, says to “be of the same mind one to another.” We read about the tolerance and forbearance to which He called us, in Ephesians 4:3.
So…if the church falls down in the area of Agapé love, the world is not expected to believe that we are His disciples. And, if we fall down in the area of unity, they will not believe that Jesus is the Messiah.
The third way the world is allowed to judge the church is by our behavior. Matthew 5:16 says, “Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in Heaven.” Behavior is a catch-all that could include our Love and Unity, but also includes the practical outworking of a transformed life, as shown in Romans 12:2.
Finally, Learn Humility!
Don’t “get big-headed.” Don’t get the idea that you are “something special.” Nebuchadnezzar decided that he was something special, and look where it got him. Seven years on a strict vegetarian diet, we are told—in fact, he ate grass like a cow, and thought he was an animal, for all those years. God judged the sin, but saved the sinner, Nebuchadnezzar. Don’t go through that kind of experience to learn humility. God says, “clothe yourself in humility…humble yourself under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time.” (1st Peter 5:5, 6)
Pride and self-centeredness are offensive to everyone, both God and Man. God says that we are not to “mind high things”…not get puffed up with our great knowledge, our doctrinal purity, our long lists of “things we don’t do.” At that point we have become just like the Pharisees: Secure in our self-righteousness, but blind to the Holiness of The Almighty God we claim to serve.
Choose humility. Condescend to men of low estate. (Jesus did so, for you.) Choose to draw near to “uncomfortable people.” Choose to love the unlovely. Choose to reflect and to channel the Grace and Love of God to those around you. We are called to be lights in a dark world, but we are also called to be peacemakers, and ministers of God’s Grace.
It all works better in true humility.
Lord Jesus, Please allow us to see Your Holiness, and, in contrast, our own sin. Allow us to be changed by your Grace; by your Love; by the engrafted Word of Life, and the indwelling Spirit of the Holy, Almighty God. Make us over into your image.